At the beginning of Genesis 16, Sarai who is still barren, takes matters into her own hands and gives to Abram her Egyptian slave-girl, Hagar. Abram dutifully obeys his wife and takes Hagar as a concubine, and before long, she becomes pregnant. Though holding a much lower status than Sarai, Hagar is none too proud of the fact that she and not her mistress is fertile. Sarai takes exception to Hagar's contempt and then blames Abram for the whole situation. Abram takes a step back and reminds Sarai that Hagar is her slave and that she's free to do with her as she pleases. Sarai takes her anger and frustration out on the Egyptian woman and not surprisingly, Hagar runs away from her mistress. She would rather take her chances out in the wild, then continue to be abused by Sarai.
Out in the wilderness, the young woman stumbles across a spring where she encounters the angel of YHWH. The angel asks her where's she's come from and where's she's going. She explains the situation, and then the angel instructs her to return to Sarai. As bad as things may be with her mistress, Hagar is far more likely to experience death and destruction alone in the desert, than she might with Abram and Sarai. But before she returns to the first family of faith, she receives promises from YHWH. She too will be the matriarch of many peoples and large nations. The child in her womb is to be called Ishmael and this baby will grow up to be a "wild ass of a man" - actually a complement, not a derision. Hagar does not know YHWH, but she calls him the "God who sees me, or the God whom she has seen." She may not fully understand the identity of this God, but for the moment she places her trust in him, and obeying the angel, she returns to Sarai. She eventually gives birth and Abram names his first son, Ishmael.
Culture and Customs
Like any other historical document, we should seek to understand the Biblical narrative in its historical context. Abram and Sarai lived in a world where slavery was commonplace. Now, to be sure, the slavery that existed in the Near East 4,000 years ago is not exactly the same kind of slavery that existed in the American colonies and the United States from the 1600s until 1865. However, let's be clear - slavery is never a good thing. Throughout the entirety of the Bible, slavery was common in the Near East and the Mediterranean. Sometimes God's people enslaved others and sometimes they were enslaved by others.
What do we make of this? First, we acknowledge that it is human sin and brokenness that leads to things like slavery. But secondly, we must also acknowledge that slavery in some form has been very common throughout almost all of human history and in almost every location. God does not swoop down and miraculously end every human institution that transgresses his will. He has given humanity freedom - both freedom for good and freedom for evil. And so, if God is going to work through humanity - which is his chosen instrument - then he must work through human frailty and sin. He finds and works in and through us as we are, not as he would have us to be. And if we look at our own lives, we realize that God's work, though noticeable, takes an awful long time to mature. There are no quick fixes. And yet, God continues to work through us.
So, back to the story of Hagar, Sarai, and Abram. Due to human sin and brokenness, there is a power dynamic at work and it is clear who has the power and who does not. Sarai, as Hagar's mistress is in a position of power. And by giving Hagar to Sarai, Hagar is powerless to resist Abram. Though, not necessarily commonplace, it was not unheard of for an infertile woman to offer her husband a "surrogate" option in the ancient Near East. The text does not tell us Hagar's feelings once she has become Abram's concubine. It would be pure speculation to guess. But, it isn't unreasonable to think that she may not be 100% thrilled. Either way, she does become pregnant and one cannot fault her for rubbing Sarai's nose in this. She may not have much power, but she has something that at this point Sarai is unable to attain. And though she is not favored by her mistress, she is still favored by God.
God's Concern for the Outsider
The reader of the Bible will discover over and over again that God has a real concern for the outsider. There are groups who emphasize God's election of his people at the expense of everyone else. But a close reading of the narrative does not allow for this. In God's Kingdom, there are no outsiders except for those who choose to remain outside.
Notice in this story how God not only provides life giving water for Hagar, but also directs this young, vulnerable woman to return to Abram and Sarai. This undoubtedly saves her life and her pregnancy. It also provides a solid platform for her son to be raised in a better environment than he might otherwise have been exposed to if Hagar had somehow survived the desert conditions, avoided wild animals, and outwitted any potential bandits along the way. YHWH promises to bless Ishmael and to establish many nations from his descendants, so God does not save Hagar, simply to save her, rather he saves her so that both she and her son might be a blessing to others in the future.
Seeking to Orchestrate Promise Fulfillment and Blessing
It may seem that I am being overly harsh with Abram and especially Sarai at this point. Let me be clear - I do not think that either of these figures does anything that might be drastically different than most any other human beings would have done in their circumstances. But, that's why a life of radical faith can be so difficult.
Both Sarai and Abram could and should have treated Hagar and her unborn son with more dignity, care, and respect. And the whole situation results from Sarai and Abram seeking to engineer God's blessings on their own terms. Because God is seemingly slow in keeping his promise, they take matters into their own hands.
As I point the finger at these faithful, and yet at sometimes faithless individuals, I recognize that there are three fingers pointed directly back at me. How often have I failed to wait on the Lord? How often have I trusted my own ingenuity over God's faithfulness? How often have I simply been unfaithful, despite God's promise keeping? How about you? - Shay






