When we arrive at Genesis 20, we are presented with a familiar story - one so familiar that it's almost as if we've read this same tale only eight chapters earlier in Genesis 12. But instead of Abraham pawning his wife off as his sister to Pharaoh, this time he does it with a Canaanite king in the Western Negev. Because of the similarities between this story and chapter 12 and a very similar tale in Genesis 26 (this time it's Isaac and King Abimelech), many scholars believe that all three narratives are based on one single tradition that has been told three different times. This may be the case, but we should also not discount that this was simply a pattern that Abraham found himself consistently falling into. Oops, he did it again! Haven't we all been there? Haven't we all found ourselves falling into the same kind of sin, not once, not twice, but over and over again? Sometimes those sins are passed down from father to son. Whether this story is simply a re-telling of a single tradition, or if it actually happened more than once, we can still gain new (and old) insights from this text. Before we do, let's briefly get the gist of the story.
Abraham moves west near Gerar and tells the locals that Sarah is not his wife, but his sister. Abimelech decides to add Sarah to his harem, but before he consummates the marriage, God communicates with him in a dream. God warns him that death awaits him if he touches this married woman, but the king protests that he had no idea that Sarah was married. God explains that he knows that Abimelech has acted with integrity and that he has prevented Abimelech from knowing Sarah sexually. He exhorts the king to return Sarah and explains that since Abraham is a prophet, he will pray for him and his family. After he wakes up, Abimelech returns Sarah to Abraham, but also takes time to upbraid Abe for his thoughtless deed. Abraham makes his excuses, and like he had with Pharaoh before, he comes out of the situation better off financially than when he had entered it. Abimelech offers Abraham the pick of the area to settle in and Abraham then prays to God on behalf of the king and the king and his family are blessed in return. What are some takeaways from this repeated motif?
Sin Affects More Than Just the Sinner
If God does not intervene, not only would Abimelech and his family suffer, Sarah would as well. And the promise of a son would be put in jeopardy! The consequences of Abraham's actions would radiate out from Abimelech's family into the rest of his kingdom and beyond - even to the ends of the earth. This would not be Abimelech's fault, but he would suffer nevertheless. When we act in haste and in self-serving ways, it's easy to forget that our poor judgment doesn't simply affect ourselves, but those around us too.
Abimelech Acts Out of Faith, Abraham Acts Out of Fear
When explaining himself, Abraham says the following to Abimelech, "I did it because I thought, 'There is no fear of God at all in this place, and they will kill me because of my wife.'" (Gen 20:11). There is an irony here. Clearly, Abimelech does fear God and acts in good faith, while Abraham allows his fear to overwhelm his faith. It is Abraham's actions which (nearly) have deadly consequences for Abimelech and his family, not the other way around. It's better to give others the benefit of the doubt rather than to assume the worst. Fear often pushes us to do the opposite.
Blessed to be a Blessing
We've stressed throughout this blog series that YHWH calls and blesses Abraham and Sarah, not simply for their sake, but for the sake of the world. God has used Abraham to bless others around him. Sometimes Abraham does this intentionally, but sometimes God does it through Abraham, despite his less than kosher actions.
The Promises Remains
Like God's blessing, God's promises remain in spite of Abraham's lack of faith and follow-through. Now, let's be clear - YHWH has not forced Abraham to follow him. Abraham had a choice in the matter when he was initially called and he continues to have the freedom to follow or abandon this God. But because God has freely partnered with Abraham and Abraham has reciprocated, God will remain faithful to his promises, both for Abraham's sake and for the future of the entire creation. Later, the Apostle Paul writes that all of God's promises are "YES!" in Jesus the Messiah. Ultimately, it will be through Jesus' faithfulness that God's promises to Abraham are fully and finally realized. - Shay






